Sooooo he needs to be soft, gentle and apologetic?? Example Hello evan52 im very sorry my tank was in the way of your jet next time i will make sure that im not in the way of your nose dive. Again im very sorry, please do not land on me because it hurts me. I hope i am not hurting your feelings by telling you about this matter. I would never do anything to make you feel bad! Let me hold your hand and walk you thru some things we do not do here ok evan52 it is time to go, here son take my hand!