If anyone would like me to do a write up on what to look for numbers wise let me know and I will start a new thread. Exposing a hacker and convincing people to accept it is tough. There are so many hackers out there that a shift in what is accepted as normal *gifted* play has really embedded itself in BF4. Usually it's the kids who accept it as the norm and don't care to educate themselves on how hackers use the various hacks available to dominate and remain inconspicuous so they just accept it as great gaming and hop on the band wagon to shame the person making the accusation. I agree that frivolous accusations should not be made and I'll admit I've jumped to conclusions before but knowing what I know now easily allows me to go to look at a players stats and see if they are just having a good round or if indeed they are using some sort of exploit.
It's never just one single factor that makes a player a cheater, it's a combination of things that add up so when we see these turds in here asking for proof.... It's in their stats, the video footage, the amount of complaints and lastly, their overall behavior. Like many have said, their is no definitive way to prove that someone hacks so we need to do the best we can to protect the server and it's players. Like Redkilla said, it's your server and you run it how you see fit. To me the fact that hackers will rant and bitch that they can't play on your server just goes to show the extent to how entitled they feel they are. Bottom line here is that no one has the right to run off legit players just to stroke their ego and AARP admins do a pretty good job of enforcing this policy.