Thank you very much for the welcome.
I am sorry I cannot talk about car companies or give you EV FJ cruiser as my specialty is in the aerospace industry, not automotive.
The thrust of the engine of a passenger plane is designed based on takeoff and its margin, but it is not economical to put a heavy engine on board, so we just get by with an engine that is sufficient for our needs. On the other hand, military aircraft, especially fighters, are often equipped with overpowered engines for mobility and survivability.
In the case of rockets, powerful engines reduce gravity loss, but the acceleration just before engine cutoff increases, placing a greater load on the structure and payload. So satellite launch vehicles often use engines with relatively large thrust, while manned launch vehicles use engines with large throttling.