I'm not a fan of AMD personally, while i've never had Ryzen gen parts, I've gone through enough headaches with Radeon, FX CPUs and Catalyst that I've pretty much sworn off of them entirely.
Unfortunately I'm using an old server board from 2011 so i dont have the socket for it.
I use the 32 core threadripper on my home unit with VM desktop going to the 64 core next yr. on my servers i use the optron and one of my new ones got the Epyc 64 core fast as hell on that sql
what server board are you using